He is intelligently disabled,
He has talked about why what the poiint of living,
no it just been the last 6mths,he always been a loner,he has always wanted to have other people-men in live,'
I am single mum,he has seen his dad since he was 13years age.( i think this has a lot to do with it.even when is dad was here he didnt want him and told him so,so he never had a male role model.
so it easier for him to just stay home and watch tv.(he wont get hurt then)
I have taken him to gp and they have put in place mental health plan to see a psychologist,who has had dealing with the intelligently disabled where he works.
He doesnt like doctors,so i am having trouble getting him there,as he has seen so many since his birth.
Life is just depressing for him,he has even given up on sports,(he played for a disabled footy team and cricket team now he just say no.
so yes it frightens me,that he isnt happy,this is not a life for a 29years.
he has friends from the footy club,who he also works with and they have asked him out
like to good to see a sports activity or car races,etc guy things and he says No.
He went away for a week with a disabled travel group to qld he made friends but he didnt exchange phone nunber or emails address when asked why i dont know what to say.to them,he even met a nice girl,they text but he doesnt want to see her she live to far away i have offered to take him and he said no.
He has girl friend who live not far away but he now doenst want to seee her or talki to her and he get upset when she rings him.
it is good to have someone to talk to about this.
he wont do that he is just in his own world.
I tried lots of thing nothing works.he just want to watch tv,video-porn or play computor games,
I think he need a male roll model,to talk to about blookies things.you can only tell your mum so much.
it worries that his life isnt happy and he want out.
it been hard for both of us all his life,but i wont give up on him.he need a life.