We've been together for almost 30 years and I've never been unfaithful, but since he has rejected me, I'm thinking about going outside the marriage. I don't want to, but I long for the touch and comfort of a mans arms around me. I've tried wearing seductive clothing and lingerie, but he doesn't seem to notice. He finds my touch irritating???? He's always been a little bit that way, but it seems to be getting worse. I don't think he's having an affair, he works hard every day in a family business, so there is little time for that. I think he watches some porn on the internet. I will try getting some books, do you have any specific suggestions?