Thank you for your response.
I am sorry to hear about your husband's situation.
It sounds like your husband is disrespectful, rude, and mean to you. His behavior seems immature and self-centered.
Perhaps, he may feel entitled to behave this way as he has not changed the behavior much after attending marriage counseling.
He may have mild depression and self-esteem issues as he is angry and moody around you and your kids. I also wonder if he actually may be needy emotionally as he criticizes you often. Did
you notice his behavior before you and he got married?
If so, his behavior may have to do with his temperament and emotional maturity issues.
In any case, you may need to remind him of your needs and wants and communicate your feelings with him.
Marriage therapy may be an option again unless he listens to your feelings and makes efforts to change his negative behavior around you.
Please let me know if you have more questions or I have overlooked any. Warm regards,