I think you are right. As of now, we are going to separate, though we have a house to sell, and in this economy, that might take a bit long. I told him if we could be in a "friendly" environment while this is happening, and he said: "as long as you are not in the war zone I'll be the same as before" but i know him, he punishes people with the silence treatment, the angry face, the I'm here, but not really, and if I try to talk about possible counseling again, he will say, " No thanks, XXXXX XXXXX you are out, and we are done".
I'm confused as you can see, my mind says get out, my heart is in pain, because I care about him, but all this is taking a toll on myself. It never ocurred to be about the NDP, until recently when I was reading some articles. You think is okay to tell him that he might have this condition? and this is what is basically creating out problem? or do you think he'll get in a rage and blow out of proportion? I would appreciate any advise. Thanks in advance.