Thank you for contacting Just Answer. I am sorry to hear about what is going on between you and your girlfriend. There is nothing you can do if she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore unless she is willing to consider couples counseling. Have you talked to her about that?
Having a third party may help her look at things which she is refusing to do now.
I see that you are not responding. I'll pause here and await your response.
I did not think of couples counseling. Doesn't Dr. Phil say that couples counseling does not work?