Thank you for contacting Just Answer.I am sorry to hear about what you are dealing with.
Do the two of you have any children?
How long have you been in a relationship with him before you were married? Did this happen before you were married and if it did for how long? How long have the two of you been married and how long has this been going on in the marriage?
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