Hi! You know, to give you the best answer, I think I should ask you a few questions first that will help define the problem and the situation.
I'll be very glad to give you my personal opinion. But I want to make sure this is what you are seeking. Are you asking from a philosophical point of view my opinion?
Or is there something specific going on in your life that this relates to?
If so, what's going on?
Any extra information that will help, feel free to share.