Thanks for your answer.
To be completely honest, I am a bit tired of hearing that it will happen if we just stop thinking about it. I am actually not thinking that much about it. I have just got a new job and I do therefore not mind if I have to wait sometime before I get pregnant (but I cannot just step out of the fertility treatment because it will take me time to get in). So if it is right that I will get pregnant if I do not worry about it, then it would have happend now.
I might not have made that clear enough. But my worries is not about being pregnant but that our sex has been bad for so long time that I have started thinking that it might be better if we did not get a baby because we then would have to stay together.
But thanks anyway. I got a feeling that you are very sincere.
I wanted to ask you how to find a qualified sexual therapist. But I looked at your web page and saw that you are located in NY so you probably do not know much about England. If you do, I would be happy to know, if not I wish you all the best.
Thanks and best wishes