I don't feel at this time I can reach out to him. He has done everything possible to avoid me. I understand he is probably hurting. I still can't help but feel I must really be an awful person for him to run back to her.
I guess my question now is, what if anything can I suggest to him/his family that might gently push him towards seeking appropriate help. He has been seeing someone for years however according to him they talk about sport and fishing and this dr gives him whatever drugs he wants. He needs a real councelor to help. I have already told him that no one deserves to be abused. I have told him he is a wonderful person and deserves more even if it isn't me he needs to do this for himself. I feel he knows he needs help. I was abused and did a lot of work and know it is not easy to go through and you are affraid you are going to loose yourself in the process and what will be left of what you know. How can I help him?????????