How long should I wait before my boyfriend of 6 1/2 years knows he want to marry me. I live with him and he says he is not ready still after 3 years of living together. We have a blast together and do lots of recreational activities and are compatable. One major problem is he has cheated on me atleast 6 times that I know of and lied about each one and I have caught him. He begs me back each time! He also lies easily. He drinks more than usual. He has never met my dad or had an interest in meeting my family. Do you think he can change??? I am at the point where I wonder if I should move out and do you think that is good and will make him make a decision? Or is that the wrong thing to do....he says its like an ultimatum. and that he knew I would just run that easy. I am 41 and been married twice. both NOT my fault. He says...."why do you want to get married again so bad-youve already been married twice!"
I am so confused right now. I have my heart and head pulling in two different directions. I kind of want to move out but I am scared of my decision and the outcome.