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Considering that the foundation of any successful relationship is honesty and trust it is hard to believe that this relationship will change.
I have treated couples for 30 years and this type of manipulative behavior represents a character disorder and such types do not change.
I would suggest that you find a counselor to sort this out and act accordingly with the knowledge that you have been betrayed .