Hello- Thank you for asking the question here at JustAnswer. I have read what you have written and am happy to respond.
I am sorry to hear about this.......for you. However, after working with couples for 30 years- this is a blessing in disguise for you as from what you write, he would not have been a good partner. Too much baggage......and I bet you were just scratching the surface.
He was probably referring to reactive attachment disorder which is a condition where a child does not effectively bond with a primary parent or caregiver. Therefore, in later life they lack an ability to experience closeness and attachment with others. They also lack the capacity to maintain a meaningful intimate relationship.
This will give you more detail on the issue:
I trust that this answers your question.....and wish you the best. Again, this is probably a blessing in disguise.
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