What is stopping you from trusting your instincts? Look at what you wrote, what would you tell a friend? Men who are controlling and abuse, first work at taking your away from your support network, limiting your time with friends and/or family by being with you all of the time. The second thing they do is make you feel crazy or to start doubting yourself. You have only been dating 6-8 weeks and he wants to act like a married couple? This should be the fun, get to know you part of a relationship, if it is feeling like work, that is not a good sign. If you are wondering if he has control issues, that is not a good sign. You know what you know, trust yourself and do what is right is for you. You deserve to be treated with respect!