I'm not making up lies. Here is the situation.
I frequented a forum called AllDeaf. I'm Deaf and I interacted on those forums with other Deaf or Hard of Hearing people in threads and discussions.
One such thread was in regard to an AllDeaf meet in Chicago while a Deaf Nations Expo was in full swing at that time.
I said it was possible I would go, since I live in an area that is so rural that I am basically the only person in my town that is Deaf and speaks both orally and in Sign Language.
On the forum there is a sub forum called penisarium that adults would frequent (the sub forum is of a sexual nature). I made a thread on there asking men if they liked butts too besides being a boob guy. I had a few responses and was asked to show my butt for perusal. I sent two emails to two different men with a picture of my butt in boy shorts underwear before figuring out that I could make an album without having to use another website to host pictures or email.
Now back to the thread about the meet in Chicago. The two men that I sent the email of my behind to planned on going to the meet. One of them I was speaking to in Private messaging about where everyone who planned on coming were going to stay, have dinner at, and a few drinks later. I sent this private message to the woman who started this Chicago thread too not just him.
This was not a back and forth private messenging day after day, it was once in a while. This same man I spoke to also invited everyone openly on the thread that they could come to stay at his place in Indiana for the night and attend a Deaf Proffessionals Headquarters Hour with him the night before the meet.
At some point after that my boyfriend and I got into a fight and I left and I planned on going to Chicago and having my mother go with me on the drive. The plan was that I would drive to Portage just outside of Chicago and meet with my grandparents halfway to drop my mother off and I would go to Chicago for the night and day and drive to my grandparents place and stay with them for a couple of days.
I was at this time trying to work things out with my boyfriend and the night before moving back in with him I spoke to the man who I had been communicating with in private messaging and told him that it didn't look likely that I would go to Chicago and I probably would drive straight to my grandparents instead since so many people where backing out.
The following day the same man sent a message and said 'If you still plan on dropping your mom in Portage with your grandparents, the offer for you to stay at my place still stands. I would love to hang out with you for the day.'
He believes that I developed a relationship with him. The man I spoke to was not interested in it.