i think there is some truth in what you saying but he does turn round and say sometimes i do love you ... you know and i know i dont say it much.!!!. and has made comments that he would have a child if we won the lottery yet i find him looking at baby stuff with his 15 year old daughter who wants a child... and saying isnt this cute to me.... he has always played mind games... hes not distance all the time he will cuddle he just doesnt seem to want to sleep with me.. hope this helps it more clear :)
well i know he wont go for counsiling but i tihnk i understand what you mean...try and talk to him again to see if he will realise how serious this is and explain that it needs sorting or the relationship wont work ??? and put it on his toes maybe and let him see how hurt and rejected i feel??? i know i walked out on him once before and he just wanted me back and did try for a while.. i love him so much and i undestand he has issues and dont want to walk out as i belive once married thats it for life....i just wish i could understand his behaviour... ..id do anything fo him and gave so much up for him but he is selfish...i could try talking again i suppose but i think he does love me just doesnt know how to deal with an adult relationship is that about ight do you think ???