not sure .
he has always been shy and chosen to be around less people than a big group.
he has cut himself off so much from people at work to the point where he only says goodmorning and goodnight no in between.
this is abad situation
maybe if he had more interaction some of the phobia would go away.
if took him a long time to get married because he didn't get out much.
he is loves his family and doesn't want to lose them.
before he got married he looked at pornography on lonely nights.
he has been happily married for 5 years.
now he stoped all and his wife is his only release; he is master of his domain, for 6-8 months.
after marrage everything stoped except looking at women in the world.
but i'm not sure if the smut in his head is creating the problem, or if trying to suppress looking at woman sexually is creating a internal battle. sometimes trying not to do something so much backfires.
not on all issues. a little to a childhood friend.
its not something to be proud of, so he keeps it inside.
i was looking for a little insite and who to contact for help.
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