Thank you for contacting Just Answer. I am very sorry to hear this. If she is hearing voices, she should make an appointment with a psychiatrist as soon as possible to get her diagnosed. It is very important that she do that. Until she is diagnosed properly one cannot do anything. Hearing voices --- are they inside her head or outside actual voices she is hearing.
I must go see patients now. Write whatever you like in this chat and I'll check back as soon as I am finished with patients.
she actually thinks that her parents tell her I am cheating which is impossible cause they dont even know me
Make sure you find out about the voices.
I want to tell her to go to a therapist together because I love her and I dont want to leave her alone she wants to sepparate with me but I know she loves me and everything you think is serius?
But does she hear them or imagine them. In either case this is a paranoid delusion and she must be diagnosed by a psychiatrist. It is illegal; to diagnose over the internet.
do you think it is a good idea to stay with her and go to a therapist cause she dont wants to go to a therapist actually
The issue at this point is to diagnose her --- it is not a couple issue. I mean it could be but she needs a doctor to diagnose her first. Very important!
I am willing to stay with her and help her
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You could go with her but to a psychiatrist for her, not a couple therapist. You want the doctor to check out her delusion.
so it is good to have me or not? should I go or stay and help?
I am willing to do anything to help
I must see patients now. I promise I'll be right back. But really all one could say is she must be seen by a psychiatrist.
should I stay in the relationship or I make it worst?
I'll check back as soon as I am finished.
Could it be solved and be back to normal again? Could it be serious?
Please I should I stay or should I go what is better for her?
thanx for nothing
I said I had to go see a patient and that I'd be back as soon as I was finished. So if that's the way you feel i will opt out.
ok I just thought I wasnt getting your attention so it is ok have a good day
I may be able to help you. Your girlfriend is experiencing something confusing and frightening. Like the previous therapist said, a mental health evaluation is very important. Do your best to get her to see someone, a counselor, therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, whichever she is willing to do and whichever you can get into the soonest. Should you stay with her and help her? Yes, she needs your help and support. But be aware and sensitive to her needs and moods. If your presence is making her more agitated, take a step back but don't abandon her. She needs to know that the voices she is hearing are not normal but can be treated. Yes, she can be treated, the sooner the treatment the better. Do what you can to help her, but you may have to do it from a distance for a while or through friends/family. Hang in there.
Sorry for the delay. I am not surprised at her response. She is not thinking clearly. You need to be very careful in your interactions with her. First and foremost let her know that you are supportive of her and want what's best. If you are able to discuss the situation with mutual friends, that may be helpful. Helpful to you to have someone to talk to and maybe helpful for her. Her friends need to be careful too, do not be confrontational but supportive. When she is ready, then offer suggestions. While you are waiting for her to be ready for help it may be a good idea for you to talk to a counselor. You need lots of support through this process too.
You may have to keep your distance until she finally seeks the help she needs. Get support for yourself so you have someone to talk to you. This is a very stressful situation, don't try to handle it alone.