Thank you for contacting Just Answer. I am so very sorry to hear about this behaviour. This behaviour should be reported to the Department of social services in the city that they live in. This is profoundly abusive behaviour and needs to be reported immediately because of the extreme damage that they are causing this child.
And how do I do this without losing my son. More importantly, who should I speak to and what should I report to save my grandchild, even if I have to lose my son?
It is truly remarkable and unbelievable to hear that this is how this little 7 year old child is being treated.
I can't stop crying, and he won't listen to me!
Find out the number for the Department of Social services in their city. Ask them not to tell your daughter-in-law or your son that you are reporting this. Actually, you can try to report this annonymously. They will check into and will be given warnings. Do it anonymously. In fact, call from a public telephone so they can't trace the call back to you.
I am willing to pay more for your expertise. It is more important that my grandaughter is ok. Please can you connect me to someone, or maybe even forward this to Dr. Phil, since I found you on his website and I know how concerned he is with children's rights. My son might not want to appear, but I am desperate to find help, for all of them. I cannot believe they cannot see the damage they are doing to this child. It was done to me, and I always accepted abusive behaviour, because my father always made me felt less than (idiot, moron, jerk, there are no mistakes, only carelessness, you are their looking glass, everything they do wrong is your fault, blah, blah, blah, Oh yeah, there was the sexual abuse by my dad and the physical abuse by my mom, but my son is, thank God, not that way. But he is psychologically abusive.
We are not connected with Dr. Phil. But you must call the Children's Social Service Department. They will do an investigation. It's got to stop. This is definitely child abuse!