Thank you for contacting Just Answer. I think that you need to think very carefully before you get back together and shouldn't unless you enter couple's counseling with him should you be considering a reconciliation. Otherwise how do you know that he won't do this again.
That has been my question after finding out of what he did. I just do not understand why does he still keeps communicating with my friends? And he only communicates with the ones the he knows I am close too? Is he sorry of what he has done and still cares for me? I know I will not make the first move to communicate with him. Right now, I know I will want to get back to him
You need to tell your friends how you feel. It is a much more difficult situation for your daughter but your friends should understand how upsetting it would be for you to maintain contact with him.
Sorry, I meant to say for them to maintain contact with them.
Sorry --- with him.
I have to admit it does make me feel good when they tell me that he had called them. I know it takes time for me to completely forget him. Do you think after all these he still cares for me? Please let me know
I wish I could let you know but I can't crawl into his head and know what his motivations are? What do your friends say about their interactions with him.
Nothing really. He is inviting them to hang out sometime soon. They wanted to hear him and see why he went this far. My daughter said that he once sent a text message to her saying that he wanted to call her but she declined. Maybe I am just delusional?
Well, it's not that you're delusional. Obviously, there is wishful thinking but unless he clearly states that he wants to get back together don't set your hopes on it.
I guess. ok thanks for the little bit of advice. You have a happy new year!