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I am sorry to hear about the problems that you are experiencing. The disorder you are describing sounds like an impulse control disorder known as Trichotillomania in which the individual has irresistible urges to pull hair from anywhere on the body including scalp, eyelashes, eyebrows or other places. The behavior of hair pulling generally relieves tension, even though the individual generally is aware that it is causing harm to them. Treatment typically involves therapy including habit reversal training, often combined with medication, typically antidepressants (SSRIs). I would certainly encourage you to seek treatment with a psychologist and psychiatrist who can help you with this issue. You may find the following link helpful: http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/trichotillomania
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