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my girlfriend cheated on me... I know her since Dec 2009. She said several times that she loves me and misses me. It was a long distance affair...while she told me in Jan how much she loves me and misses me she made out with her ex-boyfriend....in March again she was physical with another ex...then in April she fell for a guy at work and that lasted for until end of July after which she left the town, but still kept in touch with him everyday by phone and SMS. She always missed my calls never replied to my txt messages. All this while i had some doubts and asked her but she denied and said she was busy at work. when I was visiting in June she 2-timed me and slept with the other guy and at the same time asked me if I was sure about her for marriage. She kept in touch with this guy until i found out from my end by tracing her phone log in Middle of October. After which she cried and said, she was crazy and not sure why she did it and now feels really sorry. She knew that she was supposed to engaged to me in December but did not end contact with the guy from work until i found out about it. What should i do, can i trust such a women. She is 24yrs old.
Sir....if I may be blunt?
ya go ahead
I dont believe you can trust her
she sounds like she is incapable of being faithful
she has lied to you on several occasions
also i told her that if she tells all this to her parents and asks for forgiveness then i can also forgive her
but she is scared to tell this to her parents and wants me not to tell them either
if I may ask....what would that prove...if she told her parents?
when i told her this she cried and promised that this would never happen again and that she would keep me happy
can she be given a second chance
Once a person has cheated as she has...several times over...and has asked for forgiveness in the past and youve given it to her....and she cheats again...honestly...my belief is that it wont stop here
Im very sorry to be so blunt...
i didnt know about jan and march, she told that to me
i only knew about teh guy at work
My apologies sir...but it almost sounds like you're excusing her infedelities
i think you make sense
by saying you didnt know about them
thank you very much
actually i didint know
she told me after i grilled her
3 weeks ago
I believe you need to do some very long and hard thinking about this woman
you sound like a good and honest man....
you are right i need to take my time
that would be my advice
is there anything else I can help with?
based on your experience does realtionships work after infedility
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honestly it takes a great deal of work to make them work...and Ive only seen them work a few times...and often only in marriages