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Great,,,,,so your son his acting out unexpectedly?
Does he have any history of developmental of mental health problems?
Does he act out at school or just at home?
Yes to the first part and no the second
He is very well behaved and liked at school, it is at home with his parents and brother when problems start
How does he do academically?
About average I would say, sport is more his thing though
Is he a team player? Any complaints from coaches etc?
Team player yes, no complaints from coaches
Great. Do you have expectations that are clear and limits that a consistently applied (in the home)?
I would like to think so, he has set times for homework, relaxing, bath and bed etc and cewrtainly knows how to behave in an acceptable manner
I would call his teachers to double check that nothing is going on at school that may be contributing to this. Don't rely on him to decide.
It sounds as though he is having what is having some mild form of adolescent adjustment reaction
where he acts out at home the feelings that he cannot identify and express.
Lots of changes at this age and kids can become very changeable in their mood etc
If everything is going well at school and there is nothing else to consider, if his behavior continues to disrupt the family, I would seek a Family Therapist for further evaluation.
OK, thanks for your help, I will make contact with his school and may come back to you or seek help.
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