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Hello and welcome,
Your mother leaving must have been very distressing for you and your siblings.
Do you have a question regarding this? Do you want to regain closer contact with her? Was there ever a time when you were closer?
The question is why are we all (6 siblings) distant from one another? We were once so close and had so much fun together.
We have no idea where Mom is although we've tried to find her.
Thank you for your reply. I understand your question now.
It is common for siblings to drift apart as they grow older and start families of their own, take on responsibilities at work and leave the area. Is this the case with your siblings? As they grow older still and the kids leave home and work pressures ease, there is often a chance to rekindle the relationships with siblings.
Do you have a partner or children? I wondered whether there was a reason you missed them at the moment. If it is just that life is too busy, they may welcome someone making the effort to try and get the family organised to get together occasionally.
So there doesn't necessarily have to be a serious problem for this to happen, unless you are aware of any difficulty that may have caused this drift apart.
Yes, that additional information does put a different slant on the issues between you and your siblings. You did not state that the good times ended when your mother left.
I will opt out and give another expert a chance to answer your query. I hope you get the help you are looking for
All the best,