yes he was drinking the night before. But that is not unusual. He drinks on all our dates. He also drinks by himself nightly. He says he has one cocktail when he gets home from work. On our dates he drinks much more. I dont know if he has been diagnosed. But strangely he has asked me on several occasions if I had a savior complex and other psycho speak questions. He did say he saw a therapist with his deceased wife ten years ago. He knows a LOT about psychology.
He was angry because I stayed up very late packing and preparing several meals for our planned trip today on a 3 day boat excursion, instead of sleeping next to him. He twisted my kind act into some kind of notion that it was strange to be doing that. He kept saying I had a behavioral disorder that I wasnt telling him about and kept over and over asking me to be honest. He was extremely irate and when I left the room he was talking to himself goading himself to get even angrier. I've never ever seen someone do this. I was married for 22 years and am now divorced. I never saw my ex or any other man behave this way. It was like a tantrum, but it was almost like he was trying to convince me that I was crazy. Note that the night before he was thanking me profusely for making these dishes for the voyage.