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Carol Kryder LMFT, Mental Health Professional
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Experience:  APA Board Certified, Diplomate,Substance Abuse Professional, 20 years family therapy experience
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I am diagnosed bipolar which has been incredibly hard for my

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I am diagnosed bipolar which has been incredibly hard for my dear wife. Until recently I wasn't doing much to take responsibility for my care. I was medicated, but not well managed. The ups and downs including one suicidal episode have really worn her down. Recently, I had a wake up and am doing my best to straighten things out as best as possible. This includes better management of meds and therapy and trying to figure out how to support my wife in overcoming the stress. One big problem is that I have recently identified that I am a verbal/emotional abuser. I hate to say it or think it, but it fits. I need to figure out how to best get treatment. Nothing is fast and she and I have a lot to work out, but I need to change the behavior before she can feel safe to work anything out.

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Congratulations on your willingness to make some changes. It is a great thing that you are ready to take responsibility for your behavior. The best way to eliminate verbal and emotional abuse is to find an Anger Management group which will assist you in developing coping skills to address your anger and make better choices -- not to just lash out when you are angry. Look for a therapist who specializes in anger management or find a group that address anger issues. Be sure to ask questions before you agree to work with the therapist. Some anger management people work with domestic violence, and others, with substance abuse, so you want to make sure you get the right fit.

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