What do you think: is there anything _wrong_ (morally, mentally, or otherwise) with acting on my long-standing and intense desire to have sex with a man who happens to be my father? As we are both adults, I can think of no ethical reason for not sleeping
with him, but sometimes I worry about the possible ramifications of a prolonged affair with him.
I am 21 and he is in his late 40s - a beautiful, creative, attractive man. Understand that I started this – I made it known to him, very clearly, that I wanted to make love to him, that I liked the idea. He seemed shocked at first, but only two nights later he told me it was "driving him mad" – that it was the most erotic fantasy he'd ever contemplated, and he wants to do it.
Are we both perverts? Deviants? Or just a little kinky?
Let me add
that I have had a better-than-average education and upbringing - money, some travel, private schools; and I am currently a senior, a biology major, at a good private college. Next year I'll probably begin medical school.
He and my mother were never married, but I lived with him from age 12 onward. I know that most people cringe at the thought of father-daughter sex, but I LOVE this man, in so many ways, and his sexuality is overpowering to me. Again, though, he NEVER initiated anything sexual, he never flirted, never touched me "inappropriately" -- but I want him, I let him know it, and now he wants me, and it's going to happen.
I think. I'd say there's a 90% chance I'll make love with him soon. Maybe I'm wanting you to talk me out of it. Maybe I'm wanting you to talk me INTO it. What's wrong with two adults, making each other feel wonderful? No one else will ever know; no one gets hurt... what do you think? (He is a doctor, too, by the way, and his father was a doctor as well.)