The councilor that I seen (once) stated I should consider a anit-depressant. I guess I'm just not sure..I never took them so far & got by without them, but I admit this is more challenging for sure, maybe I should, today I feel really down. But all it would take is for my stepdaughter to say, hey Dad lets do something together & I'm on top of the world, happy as could be! She makes me feel like a new man!!
After feeling this type of love, I don't see my wife & me ever having it. My wife is a good woman but I would be surprised if we found joy in each others bodies. We do have sex about 3 times a month, we talk etc but wow I just did not know how strong love can really be. We have a 15 yr Son that really makes it complicated also.
I feel lonely when I'm with my wife, not good. I care for her much & don't want to hurt her. This situation is very tough.
You have been helpful, 1 more question, is there anything you would suggest that I can use as a mental tool when plagued by thoughts about my step daughter? I feel if there was just something I could remember & think about when needed, it would help.
Also, just need to ask, I noticed when I checked the web that there are numerous successful Father & Step-Daughter relationships. Why is it considered so bad?
Don't get me wrong, I feel the need to keep my mouth shut, but just need to know.
Just want to say thank you very much for this service, I'm trying to get as much help as I can. Your advise is taken seriously and needed.
No it won't, but thanks again Dr. Michael. Did you send a response to my last question? Didn't see it, so just wondering.