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I agree your problems are due to more than just your personality. Often people who procrastinate are actually perfectionists, who will not begin a task until they are sure they can do it perfectly. The feeling of being overwhelmed can also be a symptom of perfectionism, which usually indicates a great deal of anxiety
If you are forgetful, that can be due to stress
, our old friend anxiety, and of course the depression. If the Wellbutrin is causing you to be so laid back that you are not paying bills, you may need a different medication.
You may wish to ask the doctor for Provigil, which is sometimes used to augment the antidepressant and gives the patient more energy and focus. It may help you to be able to achieve your goals.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy may be helpful, which will allow you to clarify goals and establish objective to work toward those goals. People who become overwhelmed easily just need to break things down into more manageable pieces.
You may also find one of several books on getting organized. Suggestions are:
ORGANIZING FOR DUMMIES
101 TIPS FOR AVOIDING PROCRASTINATION
GETTING ORGANIZED : Improving Focus
All available at www.amazon.com
Best to you.