My husband and I have been married for 15 years and have 3 kids. I've witnessed a change in his behavior and the lack of communication in the last couple of weeks. I felt like something wasn't right. I have never checked my husband's phone but recently did
, and found pics of this other woman (high school pal) and some inappropriate comments on his part. I decided not to confront him and to continue to check his phone when he went sleep. I discovered that he has been calling her, shortly after his gets to work and after wards also. He has befriended her mother and seems to always find an excuse to visit the area of town she lives in. This other woman and her mother gave my husband gifts for Father's Day and are making food for him weekly.
In the previous weeks I told him that I felt uncomfortable about him investing so much time and effort in this female friend. He told that they are just good friends.
I changed my attitude and have been trying to practice more happiness in my life and show more appreciation for my husband and be somewhat acceptable of the friendship. However I still feel used and isolated. Still no communication.
I finally confronted him yesterday and he admitted that he has feelings for this woman and that he has told her already. I asked him, how does she feel and he refuses to answer. He tells me that he isn't going to get into it. He wants to separate for a while, but I know it just so that he sleep with this other woman.
In the meantime he still wants to me to hang out with him and the kids and enjoy family activities. Is he kidding? I feel heart-broken! I am confused and scared. Please help.