People do not choose to be gay they are born that way. There is no way to council some one out of their gayness. What occurs is that they discover that they are gay, learn to accept it and finally live a gay life style. As a gay client of mine once said. "Do you think if I had a choice, I would choose to be gay with all the baggage that goes with it.Your caring is noble. If you wish to help him accept him as he is and doi not attempt to change him. That is the most loving tying you can do.
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