My 20 yr old grandson has been living with me since last July, because of the high unemployment in Indiana, we offered to have him live with us in il. He has a job right away had a car to use, then in November, we found out all his money was gone. So we gave him another chance.... he started a new job,full time, no car to use, my husband drives him to and from. we thought things were fine until last weekend, he had my car to go out with friends, texted me at 3am to say he was staying over which was fine, but in the am
i spoke with him stating i wanted him home soon, he did
not return until 2pm. Now we found out,again, that all his money is spent, over 600 in cash im sure to drugs......
Are we wrong to try to start again, keeping his checks and letting him keep his job and not go out? He does admit to having difficulty not lving in the moment and has no sense of consequeses for his actions.