It seems clear that your husband has a long standing trait that may be indicative of an antisocial personality disorder. For your own benefit you should realize that he is not going to change irrespective of what you do. You should always protect yourself from the probable lies and dishonesty. Again no amount of counseling is going to change him I am sad to say.. Good luck and best wishes.
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