You have listed numerous details why you should end this relationship. It really sounds more like a series of deceptions rather than a relation. It sounds like you are in love with an image, because the reality is not very lovable. The sooner you end this the less hurt you will go through. I really think you know what to do. Now it is a question of doing it. Best wishes and good look and move on. I am sorry, but that is the reality.
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