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older son incarcerated for marijuana charges, misdemeanors,

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older son incarcerated for marijuana charges, misdemeanors, ongoing issues with him, now younger son- 14 yrs old is extremely angry, resentful, bitter, no compassion for older brother, we are a christian family, and with saying that have tried to talk to our younger son based on faith and forgiveness, compassion, however
our younger son refuses to talk things out with us and we feel strongly he need to be talking to a psychologist to work thru issues, advice here, pediatric , family what
specialty do we turn to for therapy for him as well as us


Remember that he is 14 years old and lacks the the maturity and empathy that one would desire. He may underlying his behavior be trying to protect himself from the psychological pain of being greatly disapppointed and let down by an older brother who typically acts as role model. Given what you said about your faith, I would recommend a faith based child psychologist. He is apparently reticent to speak with any others present and although family therapy would be ideal, it is not appropriate in all situations (I am a family therapist) so I would not recommend family therapy and I would assure him that what he said would be held in confindence by the psychologist (unless it was life threatening). I have dealt with several situations where the child would not speak in front of his parents, but would alone, and further along obtained the child's permission to share some material. In addition he may be able to elicit what is going on from administering psychometic testing. Good luck and best wishes.




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