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Well, the features you have mentioned fit the narcissistic personality disorder , but the ideas of grandiosity and beliefs that he has been god sent for special purpose , are called as delusions of grandiosity , and along with inflated self esteem are also seen in Mania , which is a part of Bipolar disorder .
So, your husband may be having both Narcissistic personality and Mania, but this needs to be confirmed by a thorough psychiatry evaluation by a psychiatrist , as mania ( bipolar disorder ) is serious condition and needs prompt attention by a psychiatrist and is to be appropriately treated by use of mood stabilzer drug , while Narcissitic personality is comparatively less serious condition , which requires counseling to deal with it.
I hope this helps..
I wish you all the best..
The more you reveal about his personality traits , his diagnosis of Narcissistic personality disorder becomes more likely the diagnosis , but yes it is also important to know that he himself would not go to a psychologist to get himself evaluated for his personality , as he sees no problem , but the brunt of his personality is being faced by you and family , so it is you who have to confront him and take out the negatives from his personality and make him realize that it is his particular personality which is causing tense atmosphere at home, and an insecure future professionally because of his risk taking ways ., which also are a part of his personality ..
You have to be very subtle in your approach in making him realize to seek conseling from a psychologist to curb / modify his personality traits , to enhance his overall personality , which is otherwise very endearing and charming , but for better and safe future needs a fine tuning.