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Well, the anger of your husband in the evenings / night coould be associated with stress that has built up throughout the day , and in evenings when your husband wants some time to spend alone , he gets angry when he is talked or bothered by any one , and in the bargain he vents out his day's stress and frustration in the form of anger outburts , so over here , there is no co-relation between his anger and the chemical response , it is simply because of his day's stress that he gets snappy and angry in the evenings.
So, the remedy to counter this problem , is to rake this topic up when he is in good mood either durimg the day or on a holiday and calmly ask him the reason for him being angry out of nothing on you guys and also explain to him that you are in full support of his , if he thinks that he wants to spend some time alone in the evening to de- stress , in this way if you carry out a warm heart to heart talk with him at a time when he is in a good mood , this way you will not only get to know about the real reason for him being unreasonably angry , but also you would be able to send across the signal that you are hurt and displeased with his ongoing anger outursts ,and this way , he wil surely come out clean on his stand , and will make improvement on his sporadic aggresive behaviour. And you have to coax him to let hmself open on this topic , as till date he hasbeen behaving as if nothing happend in the evening , which he most possibly does to escape embarrassment and altercation.
You may also suggest him to go for meditation or yoga exercises to de- stress himself, as these naturally help the person in overcoming stress that one gets due to the hectic life schedules.
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