In all candor you are in an extremely difficuly situation. Children of that age associate with parents of the same sex. It may take some time and even then you may loose the disagreement and it will take significant adjustment time. Treat the children with unconditional love.and chose your battles. You cannot disagree about everything. . You can be true to yourself and earn their respect. Like I said the odds are low not in your favor, but that is the truth.. .Best wishes and good luck.
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On the contrary I think that him making you a bad person to the children is totally inappropriate. What I was trying to explain, it is often very difficult to get the children to see the truth no matter what the reality is. You are in a difficult position, and he is acting inappropriately, but try not to sink down to his level. You are working for both the present and the future. I wish you the best and lots of luck.. You can rest assured that you did the best you could!
I am going to opt out to allow other experts to answer. I was sorry about your dissatisfaction. Best wishes and good look.
Hi spy, may I ask if you live in the US or the UK?
(I know that must seem irelevant just now, but in the US before parents can divorce in most states a co parenting class is necessary). I am wondering if you live in the US and have taken that course?
Thanks for the info request.