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Hello, im a 29 year old male and on what you could call a downward

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Hello, im a 29 year old male and on what you could call a downward spiral. Ever since i can remember ive always been different to the other 'guys', whilst they'd be playing football i'd be sneaking off and dressing up in my sisters clothes or watching girly cartoons etc. over the years these 'urges' have started getting worse and worse to the point where im strugling to repress them. I feel completely uncomfortable with my body and with who i am. As it stands no one knows about how im feeling as i know if i told my family and friends about my gender problem they'd probably disown me. So, as you can tell im at a loose end, is there any treatment to help repress this so i can live a normal life, or anything that can help at all? Any advise would be greatfully appreciated.


From your brief description you may be under going what is called a gender identity disorder. It is not a disease, but is commonly described by patients that are a man trapped in woman's body or vice versa. To try to help you repress would definitely be counter therapeutic. It would be like trying to help a gay man or lesbian lpass as straight. The stress is unimaginable. In your case the goal would be to help you to stop repressing your thoughts and feelings which are in part biologically determined and come to grips with the reality, not to help you try to pass. I know what I have stated is in itself stress creating, but the alternative is significantly worse. I suggest you seek therapy from some one who is learned in GLBT community.- Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender. I hope you consider my suggestion and move expeditiously. I wish you the best.




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