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I am with a woman how ses it herts to make love to her and

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I am with a woman how ses it herts to make love to her and cannot convins her I am behined her no mater what is thair eny way you can help me out ????
she seems to think I wood force her to do it agenst her willI just wish yo play with her what can we do

Jerry Lennon
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  Ralph LMHC replied 7 years ago.

Hello,

Your girl friend apparently has severe sexual problem probably stemming from earlier negative experiences. these feelings are so deep inside of her that it is unfortunately beyond you ability to help her. Probably in the past some one forced her to do things against her will and now she cannot get past it. She needs to see a sexual therapist sexual therapist. If you are in the US you can get a referral form http://www.aasect.org/ . I hope that this information has been useful and I wish you both t he best-incidentally if you have health insurance they will probably pay for it..

Sincerely,

Ralph LMHC

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Customer: replied 7 years ago.
how woud you recumend her yo
Expert:  Ralph LMHC replied 7 years ago.

Hello,

I think that she has a big problem sexually. Unfortunately it is not something that she can fix her self. It is like having a broken arm-you can't set it yourself you need to go to the doctor. Well she probably has a history of abuse and need to see a therapist who will help her overcome the abuse so that she will be able to enjoy sex and you too. You ca find a sex therapist at http://www.aasect.org/. Good luck.

 

 

Sincerely,

Ralph LMHC

Customer: replied 6 years ago.
ralph
Jerry Lennon I have ask for your help help befor and still need mor we are still having trubel with SEX how can I call in my town of McAlester okla for mor info on this and websites I can go to .
Ihave tried it all even the cocunut oil rubed on her thies
so let me know ok Jerry Lennon