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No there are no children. They were married for a little over one year and she also was abusive physically and mentally. He is a very handsome guy and she was an over weight and not attractive at all. So I never understood why he chose someone like her because I am the opposite of her. He told me once that he thought that over weight people will always be nice and could never hurt anyone so he was totally shocked when she turned out this way. She was very manipulative as well and never trusted him and accused him of cheating on her all the time. It got so bad that he hated coming home after work and just wanted not to be there. And she is the one that asked for the divorce, she used him money wise and also to get into the States.
He would shower her with gifts and she was never satisfied.
She even lied about her education and said she had a Phd. Coming to find out that she had gone to school for 10 years and did not even have an undergraduate.
And he even tried to be nice about her lie. I hate talking about her, when he wants to vent out but then feel guilty bc I need to be supportive. Also feel upset that why can't he forget about her and it should be easy since our relationship is so different. We don't really fight and have a lot in common. I love him and want to help him but also hate talking about her and his past....Sometimes even when we fight he tells me he hates the fights because it reminds him of her...
What to do????...
Thank you for your relpy...you are 100% correct and I have decided I don't want to listen anymore. he was seeing a therapist and he stopped because he felt like he didn't need to see her anymore.
But I am not the new therapist, he can talk to his sisters and keep me out it. This relationship is about us and I didn't sign up to listen to his stories about his pyscho EX...