Please explain the anti-social pd, and should we confront him? We have always said he has commitment issues. He is always tired and grumpy and he has trouble working with anyone who is in charge. He always has to be in charge. puts down anyone who may not agree with him. He tells stories, for example, he told everyone he ran in the New York City marathon and passed Lance Armstrong. Come on... Had an abusive father (who is an alcoholic) and his mom has Teurette's. She is codependent on the father. we call it dysfunction junction. Althoug he has a very nice girlfriend now. But she bends over backwards for him and does everything for him. I told my husband to have an intervention and get to the bottom of his stealing. But i highly doubt that he will ever admit it. He is going to have to fire him. The only other thing that may be wrong is that he might be into drugs, in which case he needs a whole different course of actions.