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Well, this is a very serious situation , and i feel ver sorry for you , as you must have got devastated by such a situation , but just keep yourself well collected emotionally as you need to take a firm stand now and also take some important decisions in order to maintain the sanctity , harmony and respect wthin your family .
It seems quite obvious that your mother who has been living without any male partner for most of her life , at times must be feeling lonely and in desperate need of male company , and it is in such moments that she had become vulnerable and her desperate needs had the better of her , and she gave in to the temptation , and carried out such an embarrassing and despicable act . However , having said that , although her acts of such outrageous and despicable nature cannot be condoned , but , you also know that she is the only family that you ever had , and since she probably is suffering from depression and emotional unstability , so it is advisable that before you think on terms of getting her placed away from your family , you need to try and help her to solve her psychological and emotional issues .
So, i suggest that first you confront her directly without being loud and aggressive , but being firm and polite , and make her realize that what she did was definitely embarrassing , but tell her that you understand that she has been going through a phase where she needs companionship , and probably her temptation got the better of her , but anyhow, it is time for her to mend her ways , and resurrect the damage she has done to her image , by seeking Psychotherapy ( counseling ) from a clinical psychologist , who besides starting her on counseling / psychotherapy types such as Cognitive behavioural therapy ( CBT)and behavioural therapy , would also , assess her for Depressive disorder .
So, my genuine advise to you is that in this rare situation as yours , you have to behave as a mature and understanding person , probably there is a role switch over between you and your mother , over here you have to act as an elder and guide her to the path of dignity and normalcy , and help her redeem her lost image .
So,kindly confront her and convince her to seek professional help from a clinical psychologist , and get her issues sorted by going through the above mentioned therapies. However , if she is not amenable to your request and still is willing to repeat what she did before , then i believe in order to save your family from falling apart , it is very important that you ask her to find a different place to live , as such kind of acts have a very bad influence over kids ,besides devastating and damaging the very essence of the relationship between a mother and daughter.
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