Thanks for divulging on it a bit further.
Now , it is quite clear to see that you are being cornered in this relationship , and that you are not his priority , and there is quite a fair chance right , that he may in future like to go separate ways , i hope you understand that being going backwards in a relationship which is 9 years old , what in future may be stored for you , and that is an unpredictable and insecure future .
So, lady , i will request you to take call at this very moment and give him an ultimatum that you are not going to be taXXXXX XXXXXghtly any more and you want him to commit to your relationship and make your relationship a secure and committed one , you deserve it , and if he still lingers on and shys away from committing then i am sorry to say that he will never commit later in life also , so in this case it will be in your interest to part ways with him and start a fresh life , because otherwise you will keep on feeling dejected and as an outsider , and this will take a toll on your health eventually .
I hope this helps..
TAKE CARE .. Stand up to your right and make things clear to him , and wait for his answer , and then accordingly take further action .
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