Hello, I certainly as you indicated do not sit in judgement. However if you leave your husband it is because you have made a very considered opinion. You should not leave him for what could be a transiitional relation. I would also consider a brief thing of counseling with a marriage therapist. An excellent source of referral is the American Association of Marriage and family THERAPIST IN Washington DC, or www.aamft,org. If you have found this answer helpful please press the green button so I know it is helpful and I will be compensated. Also feedback is always appreciated.
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He does not emotional needs. He does not respond to your requests for help with your emotional prolems. He is certainly not there when you need assistance, rather he pushes you away. You said you tried, but there is no reciprocity. i said don't leave for a transitional relation. But this doesn't sound like the case. When you think about leaving or ending a relation you list the positives and negatives and then decide. I listed all the negatives, but have not heard one positive. The answer seems obvious, but it is not easy . If you decide to leave do it steps-make the decision, make the arrangements, and then JUST DO IT. If you believe that all the information that I have provided then please push the green button to acknlowedge the help and so I can be paid. Of course feedback is always welcomed.
Thank you and good luck. Remember once you decide, it will becomes earlier.
Truly, best wishes and good luck!