The Court assigned a Parenting Time Coordinator who I contacted. She said the blow job incident was normal behaviour for a teenage boy and that my ex-inlaws would keep a closer eye on him in the future. The school creported my ex to CPS on a seperate issue and I informed him of this incident. He said he looled into the teens background and that he was accused of sexually abusing others. This was in a report that I shared with the Parent Coordinator and the Court. My boys are not supposed to be at the house anymore per a Court order but their dad does not always follow this.
The driving would be done by the dad. When I suggested to my ex's Atty that he come home for visits he said that he could not because he works weekends. What is the point to make my boys travel so far away from friends and family just to sit in a strange daycare 6-7 days a week?
Our Parenting Coord said this arrangement is not in the best interest of the boys in May. Russ said he will do it anyways infringing on my Parenting Time. I paid for summer daycare in May. I cannot change it now. I have to pay daycare on his weeks as well since he has been gone and then try to get him to reimburse me. I filed a Motion to prevent him from taking the boys. The law says he cannot take them over 100 miles away. I was awarded sole custody while he is away but the Judge is open to hear a plan from my ex. My ex filed a Motion yesterday to enfoce this visitation schedule. How do you have Joint Custody when one parent lives in another State? As it is he lives 50 minutes away from the boys school in Michigan,. There is nothing Joint about this arrangement.I have FULL responsibility financial and otherwise.