Ok, you have me intrigued! Can you describe better for me what seems unreal or weird? The world is a very strange place, that is for sure, and sometimes things do seem weird, that is for sure.
If I have a better idea of what you are experiencing I can better figure out what is happening.
Also, how old are you? And one thing I always ask is do you abuse any drugs or alcohol? That will help me to know how to interpret your experiences.
Yes that does seem unusual. What exactly are they trying to change in you? Who do they want you to be? Just so I can understand you better can you help me with these questions:
what kind of work do you do?
are you currently in a relationship?
have you ever been diagnosed with a mental illnes (ie depression, anxiety, psychosis, etc)
do you have friends with whom you socialize regularly?
Your situation sounds pretty complex. Have you ever taken a psychological test called the MMPI-2? It is a nice measure that gives a psychologist insight into who you are, your personality, as well as a number of other psychiatric/psychological issues.
I agree, what you describe doesn't seem to be anxiety or panic. It seems to be more related to social and interpersonal issues.
I would suggest ask your provider to have you take the MMPI-2 and see what it comes up with.