Thank you for your timely response and also, Happy New Year.
I plan to accept your advice as difficult as it will be for me to ignore his "accidents". My wife and I will come to an agreement for the best interest of our son; I guess I'll just have to let this issue go, as much as it bugs me. But it will be her method, so she will have to clean the messes. LOL
Different topic; I hate to even ask this of you because I feel I am taking advantage of this system and of you, but do you do any online counseling for war vets? I have access to help through the military, but am afraid that it will affect my career. AND, I really don't want to see any counselors in person.
If not, then maybe some advice on a direction to go in??
Thank You! That web site is just what I need right now.
God Bless You!