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The problem that you are having is called Delayed Ejaculation.
Delayed Ejaculation (DE) or Retarded Ejaculation (RE) is surprisingly common, and is the third most common sexual problem is males, after erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. It is usually a temporary condition that occurs due to some stress.
The most common causes are:
: psychological causes lie behind most cases of DE. Increased pressure to perform, performance anxiety, etc. can cause this. A temporary episode of stress can cause this to occur. Things like having a new partner or change of home environment, etc can be the cause.
: some medicines like antidepressants
can cause this.
: some damage to nerves like the pelvic nerves can cause this. Intoxication
: excessive use of alcohol or drugs.
I would suggest - first consult a Urologist. This is necessary to rule out any physical cause like low testosterone
, etc. Discuss about Delayed or Retarded ejaculation. Also discuss about referral to a psychologist/psychiatrist who also works as a sex therapist. This can be a most useful step for you as a sex therapist can help you come out of this problem.
You can look up here: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/delayed-ejaculation/AN01299 http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm
Hope this shows you the way forward - wish you good health and a quick recovery.
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