My wife has no sex drive at all or is attracted to me.8 years ago she gave birth to our 2nd daughter by C section birth, of which she also had a hysterectomy, she also has had a ovary removed over 15 years ago which had a cyst on it.Only about 5-6 years ago she started to complain about me & the kids for touching her breasts they became very sensitive, and she has alot complained about her vagina hurting during sex & being dry alot of the time.Could you please explain some of these symptons to me please or the reasons for them please.
We are at marriage counciling.
My wife is 37 years old & told me she has had tests from her GP who has said that her hormone levels are ok, but i am not convinced of these results because of the symptons that i have told you.
So she has tried nothing at all
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Is she taking any medicines?
Please reply to my questions.
It looks that you are not on line .
No she is taking nothing at all
The low sex libido in females are generally there due to various reasons which includes-
-Taking medicines like tranqulizers or sedative.
--Pelvic adhesions after surgery.
-Infection of vagina
-High prolactin levels in blood
-Stress or anxiety
-Pain during intercourse due to psychological or organic reasons.
It looks from your details that she is also suffering from pain during sex with lack of desire.
The presence of sensitive breast may be there with this due to either hormonal imbalance or due to formation of post operative adhesions.
She should have a complete evlauation of her female hormones as well as lutenizing hormone with a ULTRASONOGRAPHY OF ABDOMEN to rule out adhesion in abdomen.
The adhesions in abdomen are liable for pain during sex .The pelvic inflammatory disease can also be the reason which can be ruled out on ULTRASONOGRAPHY .
You should consult to a gynecologist for her problem.
Hope this will help you.
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