Have your daughter to sign in to her iCloud account at iCloud.com then choose devices and then turn off the find my iPhone feature for the iPad. She can also erase it from there. Then it will connect to your iTunes.
Does she know the screen lock code?
Please follow these steps,
Okay, try the restore method next.
This could be a glitch in the software and the iPhone needs to reboot, lets try and force a reboot > Hold the home button and the power button down for about 60 seconds or until the Apple logo appears on the screen, then release both buttons.
Okay, are you near a WiFi network that the iPad has connected to in the past?
Okay, try unplugging the power to the WiFi router for a couple minutes then connect the power back to the router. Then wait about 5 minutes and try the iPad again.
okay, were you able to turn off the findmyiPhone feature in iCloud?
you will need to use a computer and turn off the findmyiphone at iCloud.com using the apple id and password ***** was connected to the iPad.
Follow these steps>
Turn off the iPad.
Go to Find My iPhone on iCloud.com.
If you only see Pages, Numbers, Keynote, and Settings on iCloud.com, your account just has access to iCloud web-only features and this method will not work.
Click All Devices, select the offline device, then click Remove from Account. If you don’t see Remove from Account, click All Devices again, then click the Delete button next to the iPad.
If the device comes online again, it reappears in Find My iPhone. If your device reappears, turn off Find My iPhone on the device (follow the instructions above for removing a device by turning off Find My iPhone), or if it’s an iOS device and you no longer have it, follow the instructions below for removing the iPad.
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The iPad is disabled because someone has tried to access it with incorrect passcodes. It is completely disabled now, meaning all files on that iPad are gone.
Unfortunately, your only option is force-restore the iPad to factory settings through iTunes on your compute by putting it to DFU (Device Firmware Upgrade) mode, which will erase everything from it. This is how Apple designed it to protect the information of their users. (Note : DFU Mode is a method which allow you to bypass the passcode screen and get it restored)
But if she had backed up your iPad to iTunes on her computer or iCloud, then you can restore all the data back after restoring your iPad from iTunes/iCloud.
Follow the steps below to restore your iPad by putting it to DFU Mode.
First download and install latest iTunes on your computer from here : https://www.apple.com/itunes/download/
Then connect the iPad to your computer with the USB Cable.
Open iTunes application on your computer.
On your iPad press and hold the Home button and the Power button at the same time.
After EXACTLY 8 seconds release the Power button. Continue holding the home button until your iTunes shows a message telling you that it has detected an iPad in recovery mode.
Click OK or Restore
Note : Put it to DFU Mode while connected to computer and also in DFU Mode your iPad will remain blank and will be unresponsive. It is normal. If it is not showing blank/black screen, then repeat the steps again. Timing is critical when you put it to DFUMode. So keep trying until it goes to DFU Mode. And it will take a while to restore it.
Remember, it may take a while to restore the iPad (the iOS firmware has to be downloaded,youwill see the Download button - a downward arrow button with spinning circle around it, at the top right corner of iTunes screen. Click it to see the time remaining)
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